Saturday, November 27, 2010

The Purple Heart

A Bead a Day recently asked people to send in stories about giving jewelry to people who didn't expect it, just for being them, and I shared a story that has stuck with me.  Over the years, I've given away what I call "Karma Jewelry" to people who've been in my booth and touched me in some way, but this particular person really got to me.



I was doing a show at the beach, and it was very early in the morning when I was setting up. A man in ragged clothes, carrying a backpack on his back, smelling like he’d been sleeping on the streets for a while, came into my booth. He had wild hair and was dirty but his eyes sparkled and he had a great smile. He started chatting with me, looking at my jewelry that was on the table, and started telling me about how he was a Vietnam vet, living on the streets, traveling the beaches where it was warm.


He said, “Let me ask you something.”

I figured he was going to ask for money, so I reached for my bag to give him something.

“Do you like veterans?” he asked.

I told him I WAS a veteran, and was married to a retired Chief Master Sergeant.

“Well maybe you can do something for me,” he said.

I started reaching for my wallet again.

But no.

He picked up a necklace I’d made. It had a dichroic glass heart in purple and red, with purple pearls.




“Can I have this?” he asked. “I got a Purple Heart in Vietnam, but I lost it.”

I put the necklace around his neck, he squeezed my arm in thanks, and he walked out of the booth whistling a tune.

I just stood there, stunned, touched, and tearful.

I’m thankful that I didn’t react like many may have, shooing him out of my booth. I’m thankful that I’d made something that he’d deemed a good substitute for the medal he’d won and lost.

I’ll never forget that man, that necklace, or that morning.



Lori Anderson creates jewelry for her web site, Lori Anderson Designs, and writes the blog An Artist's Year Off.  She's also a contributor to Art Bead Scene.

36 comments:

Lanyardlady said...

Such a sweet story. You made a huge difference in his life that day. I was selling at a farmers' market one frigid morning when a sweet but disheveled looking woman admired my things and said she didn't have anything that nice. She particularly liked the necklace I was wearing, so I offered it to her. I think it made me happier than it did her.

Kim Mailhot said...

I love this story of two beautiful hearts that connected that day. Thanks for sharing it, Lori.

I LOVE color! said...

Oh Lori that is such a wonderful story. You will be trully blessed for your tender heart. The purple heart was beautiful. and I was also impressed with you Show Display. Be Blessed

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Beadwright said...

People who don't give have no idea how much joy it brings to both parties. Lovely story.
Nicole/Beadwright

Amy Allworth said...

That is a beautiful story Lori. It's as though you made that necklace FOR him! Thanks for sharing.

Mellisa said...

You brought tears to my eyes- I suspect that your necklace remained a treasured possession for him.

Francy said...

You are aware you have a sweet, soft, heart, right?

Have a wonderful weekend.

Linda Sinish said...

Lori - Oh, what a wonderful story. It gave me chills and a smile. I grew up with the Vietnam war everywhere. Marched in protest rallies and married a soldier. Your story so touched me. Thank you for your kind heart.

SilverNikNats said...

what a wonderful story!

Mary Ann said...

What a blessing for you the day that man chose to come into your booth. It's a gift that will last you a lifetime. Thank you for sharing.

Rebecca said...

That's such a lovely story Lori. You obviously have a big heart and an open mind - two things I aspire to. Thanks for sharing it here, your post has really touched me.

Judy said...

Beautiful story...that heart was meant for him.

Spirited Earth said...

lovely story.
Maya Angelou:
I have found that among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver

Emerald Window said...

Hurray for Heros! You're one of mine. I LOVE the idea of Karma Jewelry. I frequently send beaded goodies to people I think are deserving too. And I think you are VERY deserving for your actions towards this gentle man, and also for sharing it with all of us. Please send me you're mailing address (my e-mail is on my bio on my blog, just link back to me).
Cenya

rosebud101 said...

Oh, my, Lori! I'm in tears! What a wonderful story! That was such a kind gesture, and I'll bet he never forgot your kindness.

Kristi Bowman said...

Wow, a fantastic story, I'm almost speechless!!

Createology said...

Lori this is exactly the type of story I love to read about in blogland. It shows how human and generous you are and what a kind soul you have. Thank you for sharing. Joy to you...

Laurie said...

What a wonderful story, Lori. I have tears in my eyes!

sundownbeaddesigns said...

Such a touching story Lori! I'm sure you left a lasting impression on him.

SummersStudio said...

The tears in my eyes. As you know, my son is a vet. Maybe you don't know but my father and grandfather were both vets. Hearing their stories, especially my son's, I can understand how meaninful this moment is. And the message is we must step back from the appearance and hear the story. Thank you for doing that and thank you for sharing this story with us.

MoonRae said...

bless you...

TesoriTrovati said...

Lori, that is such a powerful story. You have a heart of gold...not because you gave away that necklace you made, but because you saw past his exterior to the potential within. I am deeply moved by your story. Thank you for sharing that.
Enjoy the day!
Erin

jelveh Designs said...

lovely story, I wish for more great people like you in the world...
Jelveh
Peace

Davinia said...

Such a touching and heart warming story Lori. It's that old saying...it's better to give than receive.

Courtney said...

Thank you. Such a gift for you both!

EB Bead and Metal Works said...

I am crying right now - thank you for sharing that story. I am sure he is treasuring that heart. You are amazing, one veteran to another!

Barbara Lewis said...

What a great story ... and a wonderful feeling to know that you had such a positive impact on another ... especially someone who was in such need emotionally ... and physically. I know that necklace will bring him comfort.

Suz said...

Lori,
That is an amazing story. I think I read it reprinted on another blog,too.Is that possible?
I don't know if you have heard my sad news.You can check my blog.
Hugs,
Suz

steufel said...

Lori, that is a such wonderful story, thxs for sharing it. Have a great week!

Cindy said...

Lori, I never heard this story from you before. You are right, you could truly write a book about your life experiences. This has to be right up there as one of the most memorable. What a beautiful story - I am so happy that vet found you that day at the beach. It was meant to be. I'm so proud to call you a friend!

Melissa Meman said...

thanks for sharing this, Lori!

Inner Earth Jewelry said...

What a beautiful story to read to start off my day, thank you for that. And thank you and your husband for your service to our country too. My son joined the Army this year. How I admire his selflessness, yours, your husband's, that Vietnam Vet, my newphew, and all who give to our armed forces their time and life. God Bless!

Eileen Bergen said...

What a touching story. I have tears in my eyes.

God bless all our Vets!

Sharon P said...

A wonderful story, Lori. Ask, and you shall receive.

Lenita said...

That is a wonderful story, Lori. And your kindness knows no bounds. xx

Denielle said...

What a great story! That made my day.